Don’t Be Afraid To Have Opinions Or Take Sides
What makes blogs special to you? To me, it is the unique viewpoints of individuals who express their thoughts uninterrupted by editors or restrictions other than the self-imposed variety.
I frequently inject opinion here and take sides. That’s not really a secret and should be pretty clear if you’ve been reading for awhile. I would like to think you’re here not necessarily because your agree or disagree with what I write, but that you think it is worth hearing and want to learn, interact and debate with me.
If you agree with everything all bloggers you read are saying, you’re not reading enough blogs. I don’t think there is any blogger I read who I agree with all their thoughts. Perhaps most interesting of all are posts I disagree with, as those are the kind that I’ll think deeper about, add my opinion on and back up why I disagree.
If you’re a blogger, don’t ever be afraid to have opinions or take sides, you’ll only succeed in getting in the way of what could potentially be great content. Don’t second guess yourself.
Taking sides shows confidence
People frequently deride Michael Arrington, Robert Scoble, and other A-listers. The thing is, they are unrestricted in what they say, and know the importance of simply getting their ideas out there. A main reason they have the audiences they do is because of their unrestrained confidence. This guarantees a compelling read, even when you disagree.
When you write a strong opinion piece, your emotion is naturally behind it
If we want bland content lacking heart, we’re not looking to blogs – it’s that simple. We want to read sites that touch our emotions. An easy way to do this is to write something you have a strong opinion on, one way or the other. Don’t shy away from these types of posts, say what you feel and your audience will be moved. There are too many people who wring the emotion out of their work, don’t let this happen to you.
It’s okay to be wrong
Many bloggers, especially those in business in technology write as if they are afraid to be wrong, and seem to think if they have one misstep they’ll be ruined. Nothing could be further from the truth. You might as well not even keep a blog if you’re worried about being wrong on something – we’re only human and part of that is making mistakes and being wrong. Certainly there is no better way to learn than making mistakes, and in fact if you aren’t making any in your blogging, you haven’t been doing it long enough. No one is gets it right all the time.
You’ll start interesting debates/controversies
The most interesting discussions happen when you put your true opinions on something out there, and say exactly what you feel. One of the best conversations generated on this blog was in my post newspapers still have much to learn about the web. The post was a mix of facts, observations and my opinion – and the ensuing discussion is actually even more interesting than my initial thoughts. When I wrote it, I didn’t even think about what others would think or say, I simply stated my raw viewpoint without letting externalities influence the writing – that guaranteed a good debate on the subject.
Your readers, even if they disagree, will respect you for taking a chance
It takes guts to takes sides, have an opinion, or go against the crowd. But without flexing your risk muscle you’re never going to grow stronger. At the same time, your readers will respect the fact that you’re willing to go out on a limb regarding a subject they know is controversial. Also don’t be afraid of readers leaving because they disagree with one thing you wrote, that almost never happens. If anything, you’ll get interesting comments.
Other bloggers will also still respect you
My friend Chris Brogan has a different viewpoint on paid blogging than I do. And I know both of us think there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. I still link to him frequently here and he has my complete respect as a peer in the business world. I even featured him in one of my posts on social media influencers. You’re not going to kill your relationships with others by writing opposing viewpoints – actually you may strengthen them. And there is always more to learn from opposing viewpoints than those you agree with.
Writing neutral content all the time is boring
There’s nothing wrong with writing neutral content, but the sites I look forward to reading most are written by those I know never hold back their true opinions or thoughts. Even when I disagree, I know before I click it is going to be a compelling read.
For things where nearly everyone has the other side, you’ll be seen as a source of strength to the minority
Even if you know only a small percentage of people agree with you – if you think you have feet to stand on, say it. Even a small percentage on the web is still going to be large numbers – and I’d take a smaller, but dedicated audience over a larger but passive audience any day of the week.
Mix up personal insight with opinions, logic and facts
Mike Masnick at Techdirt is the perfect example of someone who lays his opinions on the table everyday, backed up by facts and case studies – and he usually makes a strong case for what he’s saying. There is a reason he has 800K+ RSS readers. It’s not just the stories he covers (although they are interesting) it is also the way he artfully writes them that make for a compelling read. I can get tech news anywhere, but I know when I go there it will be something special.
Conclusion
Don’t lose sight of the magic that happens and the raw emotion you inspire when you allow your personality to shine in your writing through having an opinion or taking sides. As the blogosphere matures, there clearly are some blogs that are losing the edge of what made them special in the first place. As any form of art, media or self-expression gets more popular, there will inevitably be less pushing the boundaries and taking chances and more normalization. This affords great opportunity to those willing to take a chance and express themselves without fear.
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Anton replied | Feb 3, 2009 (5 comments)
It’s funny. I’m new to blogs ( yes I know they’ve been around awhile) and am enjoying the whole unfettered exchange of info immensely. It seems that all of your points are applicable to creative endeavours!
Craig replied | Feb 3, 2009 (18 comments)
Opinions posts are more personal, and one of the main reasons people subscribe and follow a blog. They like someone’s style and many times agree, or even disagree but know they have a backbone and enjoy the friendly banter. Driving conversation is the whole point of a blog, you shouldn’t fear it. I also think people who may not agree with you, will still have respect for you to be honest.
Laurens Van den Wijngaert replied | Feb 3, 2009 (1 comment)
Great post!! Love the way you sum up all those arguments, one by one o so true! greetings from Belgium
Adam Singer replied | Feb 3, 2009 (596 comments)
@Anton – thanks, I am glad you caught on to that. I’m an artist, a blogger and a marketer so I write things from a hybrid perspective to hopefully benefit everyone.
@Craig – agreed 100%
@Laurens – greetings to you!
David Spinks replied | Feb 4, 2009 (1 comment)
Adam,
Great post. I absolutely agree and can relate to sometimes being afraid to be wrong. There really is that feeling that if you say something wrong, you’ll be ruined. I try to be as truthful and transparent in my blog posts as possible. I have been guilty of not writing things that I thought I might be wrong about.
Definitely some points that I will take with me when writing from now on.
Thanks,
Dave
y* replied | Feb 5, 2009 (6 comments)
I like the flow of your posts. And they are often thought provoking. You are absolutely right and I can’t agree with you more. I find neutral content boring and repetitive as well.
I just wanted to say that it’s still part of human nature to have the desire to be accepted. Developing a fresh opinion that’s different from every else’s and protecting it takes lots of courage and passion. Hope the blogosphere allows more of those opinionated men and women to emerge from the blur and prosper.
frank replied | Feb 7, 2009 (2 comments)
I disagree completely!
(kidding)
I actually found your blog by way of a Tween from Mr. @chrisbrogan. Seems as you two are still friends despite the disagreement.
Writing (or living life in general) shouldnt be boreing and that requires having an opinion, not being afrade to share it and not being afraid to be wrong.
BUT then humility comes into play. We should all have the humility to see/admit when we were wrong or to adjust our thoughts/mindset/opinions.
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http://twitter.com/franswaa
Stephen replied | Feb 7, 2009 (7 comments)
Adam – Sweet! I loved this. My online presence had been pretty bland, but thanks to you for reminding me of my true self – opinionated has hell.
CrystalsQuest replied | Feb 7, 2009 (2 comments)
Absolutely. That’s why the web is so empowering – I’d love to know why so many are afraid to pick up that power.
One of my all time favourite authors, StevePavlina, is running a totally different stream of consciousness to the norm, but I value that look outside the box, even if it’s nothing I’d ever pursue myself.
My relationship (6 yrs) is also based on the same philosophy: “if you and I agree on absolutely everything, only ONE of us is necessary”
Adam Singer replied | Feb 8, 2009 (596 comments)
@David – be wrong and relish it. you’ll learn from the experiences. we need to celebrate mistakes and learn from them, not sweep them under a rug
@y* – while it may be part of human nature to feel accepted, we must all work to grow beyond our programming and not feel a need to say or do things merely because others believe it.
@frank – absolutely, share your failures along with your successes with people. it shows you are human.
@Stephen – glad you liked this.
@CrystalsQuest – that’s a wonderful philosophy.